Your Life Design Exploration

Sevil Topal
2 min readJan 15, 2023

There are multiple great lives (and plans) within yourself, and you get to choose which one to build your way forward to next.

Here’s a way to quickly come up with “three versions of my life.”

Life One — That Thing You Do. Your first plan is centered on what you’ve already got in mind — either your current life expanded forward or that hot idea you’ve been nursing for some time. This is the idea you already have — it’s a good one and it deserves attention in this exercise.

Life Two — That Thing You’d Do If Thing One Were Suddenly Gone. It happens. Some kinds of work come to an end. Almost no one makes buggy whips or Internet browsers anymore. The former is out of date and the latter are given away free with your operating system, so buggy whips and browsers don’t make for hot careers. Just imagine that your life one idea is suddenly over or no longer an option. What would you do? You can’t make a living. You can’t do anything. What would you do? If you’re like most people we talk with, when you really force your imagination to believe that you have to make a living doing something other than doing That Thing You Do, you’ll come up with something.

Life Three — The Thing You’d Do or the Life You’d Live If Money or Image Were No Object. If you knew you could make a decent living at it and you knew no one would laugh at you or think less of you for doing it — what would you do? We’re not saying you suddenly can make a living doing this and we can’t promise no one will laugh (though they rarely do), but we are saying imagining this alternative can be a very useful part of your life design exploration.

Please share in the comments if you give it a try.

Resource: The book “Designing Your Life”.

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Sevil Topal

MSc @ TUM, Agile Coach @ MMS, SM, Industrial Engineer, Wanderluster, texting about business, agility, scrum, wellness, productivity, travel, and 20’s life.